The Resource Library

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Over the years, this space has grown into a living body of work — reflections written in real time and in retrospect, across seasons of change, clarity, disruption, and growth. It now also includes links to my SilverDisobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast interviews.

Feel free to scroll or use the search bar to choose a topic that reflects where you are right now and explore at your own pace.

There’s no order required. No finish line. Read or watch whatever meets you where you are.

Essays explore how perception — consciously and unconsciously — shapes experience, decision-making, emotional response and self-trust. They also address timing in life, trade-offs, internal alignment, and the often unspoken pressures behind big choices. Many posts look at how to separate fear, urgency, and outside influence from true readiness. Some tackle awareness of our nervous system, maintaining emotional steadiness, and returning to center — especially during periods of uncertainty, conflict, or fatigue. Plenty examine interpersonal perception, unspoken cues, boundaries, loyalty, projection, and the subtle mechanics of influence — both personal and professional. Others tackle leadership as an internal state, not a title. Topics include presence under scrutiny, decision-making in high-stakes environments, and maintaining integrity while operating in complex systems. I explore personal evolution, self-trust, and the quiet courage required to outgrow old identities — without abandoning yourself in the process. You can also expect to find posts about space for grief, patience, waiting, and the uncomfortable middle — when clarity hasn’t arrived yet, but something is clearly shifting. Basically you’ll find thoughts about the entirety of the human experience.

Enjoy! Thank you for visiting. I hope you find the content valuable. If you ever need to go deeper, I offer private consultations.

  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

Envisioning a Better NYC: Rising Ground CEO Alan Mucatel Shares Ideas Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Turning Crisis into Success: The Inspiring Journey of Rising Ground with Alan MucatelJoin me for an insightful @SilverDisobedience episode with Alan Mucatel, CEO of Rising Ground, one of New York's largest human services organizations. Discover how Alan lead a team to turn around an organization on the brink of collapse to become a leading provider of social services in New York City. Learn about his motivations, the challenges faced, the turnaround strategies employed, and the unique values that make Rising Ground stand out. Whether you're interested in non-profit management, social services, or inspiring leadership journeys, this episode is packed with valuable lessons and heartwarming stories. Don’t miss out on understanding how persistence, accountability, and community focus have sculpted a stronger future for many New Yorkers. Subscribe and stay informed!Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠ This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Rising Ground01:17 Meet Alan Mucatel: The Turnaround Specialist03:29 Joining Rising Ground: The Initial Challenges05:52 Facing Financial and Operational Crises08:36 Rebuilding and Restructuring12:51 The Path to Recovery and Growth20:15 Rising Ground's Unique Approach and Services28:06 Introduction to Rising Ground's Services28:31 Child Welfare and Family Stabilization28:51 Supporting Vulnerable Populations29:25 Comprehensive Support and Partnerships31:20 Hiring Philosophy and Practices36:36 Key Traits for Success at Rising Ground40:26 Advice for Aspiring Social Entrepreneurs47:17 Funding and Financial Structure50:29 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
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  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

  • Coping with Rejection: Building Emotional Resillience

    Coping with Rejection: Building Emotional Resillience

    💔 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🎙️ Rejection can sting, whether it’s from a loved one or a professional setback. It hurts—there’s no denying that. But today, I want to share some valuable perspectives on what rejection truly means and what it doesn’t. In this episode, I’ll offer insights on coping with rejection and actionable ideas Keep reading →

  • Discovering Desiderata: History and Myth

    Discovering Desiderata: History and Myth

    🏴‍☠️ Ahoy, Podcast Listeners! 🎧 Ever heard the timeless words of Desiderata? You might also be curious about the stories behind its mysterious authorship! In this mini podcast, I’m diving into the fascinating history of this beloved piece—and yes, I’ll be dressed as a pirate! 🏴‍☠️✨ Why? Because there’s a tale of copyright pirating woven Keep reading →

  • Exploring Fashion Choices: Identity and Self-Expression

    Exploring Fashion Choices: Identity and Self-Expression

    👗 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🎙️ Are you an outfit repeater, or do you prefer to tweak your look every time? What do these choices say about us? Do they reflect our identities, values, and how we want to be perceived? Join me for a spontaneous, free-thought storytelling session as we explore the fascinating world Keep reading →

  • Explore Perspectives: Key to Better Relationships

    Explore Perspectives: Key to Better Relationships

    🤝 New Mini-Podcast Alert! 🎧 Ever find yourself asking, “Why can’t we just all get along?” It’s a question we all ponder. But what if I told you that understanding different perspectives is the key to improving our relationships? ✨ In this 12-minute episode, I dive into a common situation and share the viewpoints of Keep reading →

  • Maximize Your Time: Tips for a Meaningful Life

    Maximize Your Time: Tips for a Meaningful Life

    🌟 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🎙️ We’ve all heard the saying, “Life’s a journey, not a destination,” but I like to add a twist: “There’s more to life than picking up speed.” 🚶‍♀️💨 In this episode, I explore what it truly means to slow down and savor each moment. Discover practical tips to help you Keep reading →

  • Prioritizing What Matters: A Roadmap to Fulfillment

    Prioritizing What Matters: A Roadmap to Fulfillment

    🔍 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🎧 Sometimes, the best way to discover what truly matters to you is by eliminating what doesn’t. In this episode, we’ll explore the things that may be cluttering your life and preventing you from seeing what’s truly important. Join me as we break down how to identify your priorities, creating Keep reading →

  • Explore Intentions: Tips for Meaningful Actions

    Explore Intentions: Tips for Meaningful Actions

    🎯 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🎧 In this quick episode, I delve into the concept of “intention.” It’s more than just a mental state or a goal; it’s about the conscious decisions we make to act and behave in specific ways. But is intention enough on its own? 👊🏼  Join me for less than 4 Keep reading →

  • How to Connect with New People at Any Age

    How to Connect with New People at Any Age

    🤝 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🎙️Ever feel like making friends was easier when you were a kid? You’re not alone! But guess what? You can absolutely rekindle those skills and connect with new, amazing people! 🌟 In this 10-minute episode, I explore the power of friendship and share a ton of creative ways to meet Keep reading →