The Resource Library

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Over the years, this space has grown into a living body of work — reflections written in real time and in retrospect, across seasons of change, clarity, disruption, and growth. It now also includes links to my SilverDisobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast interviews.

Feel free to scroll or use the search bar to choose a topic that reflects where you are right now and explore at your own pace.

There’s no order required. No finish line. Read or watch whatever meets you where you are.

Essays explore how perception — consciously and unconsciously — shapes experience, decision-making, emotional response and self-trust. They also address timing in life, trade-offs, internal alignment, and the often unspoken pressures behind big choices. Many posts look at how to separate fear, urgency, and outside influence from true readiness. Some tackle awareness of our nervous system, maintaining emotional steadiness, and returning to center — especially during periods of uncertainty, conflict, or fatigue. Plenty examine interpersonal perception, unspoken cues, boundaries, loyalty, projection, and the subtle mechanics of influence — both personal and professional. Others tackle leadership as an internal state, not a title. Topics include presence under scrutiny, decision-making in high-stakes environments, and maintaining integrity while operating in complex systems. I explore personal evolution, self-trust, and the quiet courage required to outgrow old identities — without abandoning yourself in the process. You can also expect to find posts about space for grief, patience, waiting, and the uncomfortable middle — when clarity hasn’t arrived yet, but something is clearly shifting. Basically you’ll find thoughts about the entirety of the human experience.

Enjoy! Thank you for visiting. I hope you find the content valuable. If you ever need to go deeper, I offer private consultations.

  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

Envisioning a Better NYC: Rising Ground CEO Alan Mucatel Shares Ideas Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Turning Crisis into Success: The Inspiring Journey of Rising Ground with Alan MucatelJoin me for an insightful @SilverDisobedience episode with Alan Mucatel, CEO of Rising Ground, one of New York's largest human services organizations. Discover how Alan lead a team to turn around an organization on the brink of collapse to become a leading provider of social services in New York City. Learn about his motivations, the challenges faced, the turnaround strategies employed, and the unique values that make Rising Ground stand out. Whether you're interested in non-profit management, social services, or inspiring leadership journeys, this episode is packed with valuable lessons and heartwarming stories. Don’t miss out on understanding how persistence, accountability, and community focus have sculpted a stronger future for many New Yorkers. Subscribe and stay informed!Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠ This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Rising Ground01:17 Meet Alan Mucatel: The Turnaround Specialist03:29 Joining Rising Ground: The Initial Challenges05:52 Facing Financial and Operational Crises08:36 Rebuilding and Restructuring12:51 The Path to Recovery and Growth20:15 Rising Ground's Unique Approach and Services28:06 Introduction to Rising Ground's Services28:31 Child Welfare and Family Stabilization28:51 Supporting Vulnerable Populations29:25 Comprehensive Support and Partnerships31:20 Hiring Philosophy and Practices36:36 Key Traits for Success at Rising Ground40:26 Advice for Aspiring Social Entrepreneurs47:17 Funding and Financial Structure50:29 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
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  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

  • Embracing Change: Transform Your Tomorrow Today

    Embracing Change: Transform Your Tomorrow Today

    I write about change a lot. Maybe it’s because I once read that if you don’t change today, your tomorrow’s will be like your yesterdays. Now let me say, there was nothing wrong with my yesterday. In fact, I liked yesterday and it was good. But since I don’t know what day I’m checking out Keep reading →

  • Perennial Tips for Staying Popular at Any Age

    Perennial Tips for Staying Popular at Any Age

    No matter how old we get, there are certain characteristics that will always be in style, keep us aging gracefully and maintain our post-high-school popularity. 😉    Here are perennial favorites: Please let me know how your growing popularity is working out for you!  😉 © Dian Griesel 2025 Keep reading →

  • Lessons Learned from a TV Segment Experience

    Lessons Learned from a TV Segment Experience

    For work, I read the full range of media. I read things I agree with, things I disagree with and things I cannot believe I have to waste my time reading. I read as much as I can because my crisis management work requires me to stay informed and up to date on all kinds Keep reading →

  • Mastering the Rules of the Game

    Mastering the Rules of the Game

    “The guide you want when the stakes are high, the path is unclear, and the outcome matters more than ever.” Leadership is an unrelenting challenge, a balancing act, and, above all, a journey. The stakes are higher than ever for CEOs of public companies or those preparing to head into the spotlight of investor scrutiny. Keep reading →

  • Why It’s Okay Not to Wiggle Your Nose or Ears

    Why It’s Okay Not to Wiggle Your Nose or Ears

    Can you wiggle your nose? How about your ears? I’m of the Bewitched era and I remember growing up with Samantha the Witch who could wiggle her nose. My Father could wiggle his ears. Try as I might, I’ve never been able to do either. ✨ I accept this.  I’m not less happy because I Keep reading →

  • The Power of Nonverbal Communication

    The Power of Nonverbal Communication

    Many words are spoken without ever being said. A look, a head tilt, shifting eyes, a lingering stare, posture moves, and hand motions are all silent cues that speak volumes before a single word is uttered. While we often think of communication as purely a verbal skill, most communication is nonverbal. Body language, facial expressions, Keep reading →

  • Know Your “Why” to Own Your Path

    Know Your “Why” to Own Your Path

    Life changes significantly when you understand your “Why” in life. Why do you desire something? Why do you seek someone? Why do you believe a particular choice or path will benefit your life? Understanding your motivations is the foundation of intentional and empowered decision-making. Perceptive people — particularly those in leadership positions — don’t just Keep reading →

  • Liberate Yourself: The Power of Letting Go of Expectations

    Liberate Yourself: The Power of Letting Go of Expectations

    Expectations shape how we move through life — whether in personal relationships, careers or leadership roles. But what if I told you that expecting nothing could be one of the most liberating and transformative shifts you can make? It’s a complex concept to swallow. We’re wired to anticipate outcomes, seek validation, and measure success based Keep reading →