The Resource Library

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Over the years, this space has grown into a living body of work — reflections written in real time and in retrospect, across seasons of change, clarity, disruption, and growth. It now also includes links to my SilverDisobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast interviews.

Feel free to scroll or use the search bar to choose a topic that reflects where you are right now and explore at your own pace.

There’s no order required. No finish line. Read or watch whatever meets you where you are.

Essays explore how perception — consciously and unconsciously — shapes experience, decision-making, emotional response and self-trust. They also address timing in life, trade-offs, internal alignment, and the often unspoken pressures behind big choices. Many posts look at how to separate fear, urgency, and outside influence from true readiness. Some tackle awareness of our nervous system, maintaining emotional steadiness, and returning to center — especially during periods of uncertainty, conflict, or fatigue. Plenty examine interpersonal perception, unspoken cues, boundaries, loyalty, projection, and the subtle mechanics of influence — both personal and professional. Others tackle leadership as an internal state, not a title. Topics include presence under scrutiny, decision-making in high-stakes environments, and maintaining integrity while operating in complex systems. I explore personal evolution, self-trust, and the quiet courage required to outgrow old identities — without abandoning yourself in the process. You can also expect to find posts about space for grief, patience, waiting, and the uncomfortable middle — when clarity hasn’t arrived yet, but something is clearly shifting. Basically you’ll find thoughts about the entirety of the human experience.

Enjoy! Thank you for visiting. I hope you find the content valuable. If you ever need to go deeper, I offer private consultations.

  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

Envisioning a Better NYC: Rising Ground CEO Alan Mucatel Shares Ideas Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Turning Crisis into Success: The Inspiring Journey of Rising Ground with Alan MucatelJoin me for an insightful @SilverDisobedience episode with Alan Mucatel, CEO of Rising Ground, one of New York's largest human services organizations. Discover how Alan lead a team to turn around an organization on the brink of collapse to become a leading provider of social services in New York City. Learn about his motivations, the challenges faced, the turnaround strategies employed, and the unique values that make Rising Ground stand out. Whether you're interested in non-profit management, social services, or inspiring leadership journeys, this episode is packed with valuable lessons and heartwarming stories. Don’t miss out on understanding how persistence, accountability, and community focus have sculpted a stronger future for many New Yorkers. Subscribe and stay informed!Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠ This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Rising Ground01:17 Meet Alan Mucatel: The Turnaround Specialist03:29 Joining Rising Ground: The Initial Challenges05:52 Facing Financial and Operational Crises08:36 Rebuilding and Restructuring12:51 The Path to Recovery and Growth20:15 Rising Ground's Unique Approach and Services28:06 Introduction to Rising Ground's Services28:31 Child Welfare and Family Stabilization28:51 Supporting Vulnerable Populations29:25 Comprehensive Support and Partnerships31:20 Hiring Philosophy and Practices36:36 Key Traits for Success at Rising Ground40:26 Advice for Aspiring Social Entrepreneurs47:17 Funding and Financial Structure50:29 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
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  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

  • Understanding the Blame Game: How to Break the Cycle

    Understanding the Blame Game: How to Break the Cycle

    🌟 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🌟 Do you find yourself blaming others when things go wrong in your life? 🤔 Let’s be honest—it’s a common temptation, and we’ve all been there. But deep down, we know it doesn’t feel good. Blame often leads to apologies and regrets, so why do we keep playing this blame Keep reading →

  • Transforming Envy: Your New Motivation Hack

    Transforming Envy: Your New Motivation Hack

    🌟 New Podcast Episode! 🌟 Feeling a twinge of envy scrolling through your feed? You’re not alone! In our social media-driven world, envy is all around us. But what if I told you that envy could actually be your ultimate motivator? 🤔 In less than 6 minutes, I’ll share a fresh perspective on envy and Keep reading →

  • Moving On: When It’s Time to Turn the Page

    Moving On: When It’s Time to Turn the Page

    📖 New Mini-Podcast Episode! 📖 Ever felt stuck in a situation, wondering if it’s time to turn the page or even close the book? Sometimes, it’s okay to move on instead of waiting until the last chapter. 📚 In this episode, we’ll explore the reasons for choosing to move forward and remind you that you Keep reading →

  • 10 Ways to Boost Your Mood Instantly

    10 Ways to Boost Your Mood Instantly

    🌈 New Podcast Episode Alert! 🌈 Feeling a bit funky? 😟 Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered! In this episode, I share 10 fun and easy things you can do to lift your spirits and turn that mood around. But remember, it’s all about making the choice to take action! 🤩 Tune in for some Keep reading →

  • Oceanic Meditation: Revitalize Your Spirit in 3 Minutes

    Oceanic Meditation: Revitalize Your Spirit in 3 Minutes

    🌊 New Podcast Episode: Oceanic Meditation! 🌊 Ready to elevate your spirit and well-being? 🌟 Turn up the volume for this trance-formative meditation that harnesses the powerful energy of the ocean. Whether you choose to listen with your eyes closed or open, you’ll be immersed in hypnotic words and soothing ocean sounds. 🌈  In just Keep reading →

  • Is a Normal Life Achievable? Find Out!

    Is a Normal Life Achievable? Find Out!

    🌟 New Mini-Podcast Episode! 🌟 Have you ever found yourself craving craziness and drama, only to later yearn for a bit of peace and normalcy? 🤔 But what does “normal” even mean? And does it truly exist? 🌾 In this episode, we dive into the quest for a normal life and explore whether it’s a Keep reading →

  • Take Charge of Your Opinions: A Path to Self-Authority

    Take Charge of Your Opinions: A Path to Self-Authority

    🧠 New Podcast Episode: Who’s In Charge of Your Opinions? 🧠 Are you your own authority figure? Do you take charge of your decisions and own the results, good or bad? 🤔 In this episode, we explore the concept of being your own “Authority” and how it’s a key marker of maturity—not just something that Keep reading →

  • Self-Esteem vs. Self-Confidence Explained in 5 Minutes

    Self-Esteem vs. Self-Confidence Explained in 5 Minutes

    ✨ New Mini-Podcast Episode: Self-Esteem vs. Self-Confidence! ✨ Have you ever wondered which comes first: self-esteem or self-confidence? 🤔 Are they equally important in our lives? ✨  In this episode, I break it down for you in less than 5 minutes! Discover the key differences and learn why both characteristics matter for your personal growth. Keep reading →