The Resource Library

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Over the years, this space has grown into a living body of work — reflections written in real time and in retrospect, across seasons of change, clarity, disruption, and growth. It now also includes links to my SilverDisobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast interviews.

Feel free to scroll or use the search bar to choose a topic that reflects where you are right now and explore at your own pace.

There’s no order required. No finish line. Read or watch whatever meets you where you are.

Essays explore how perception — consciously and unconsciously — shapes experience, decision-making, emotional response and self-trust. They also address timing in life, trade-offs, internal alignment, and the often unspoken pressures behind big choices. Many posts look at how to separate fear, urgency, and outside influence from true readiness. Some tackle awareness of our nervous system, maintaining emotional steadiness, and returning to center — especially during periods of uncertainty, conflict, or fatigue. Plenty examine interpersonal perception, unspoken cues, boundaries, loyalty, projection, and the subtle mechanics of influence — both personal and professional. Others tackle leadership as an internal state, not a title. Topics include presence under scrutiny, decision-making in high-stakes environments, and maintaining integrity while operating in complex systems. I explore personal evolution, self-trust, and the quiet courage required to outgrow old identities — without abandoning yourself in the process. You can also expect to find posts about space for grief, patience, waiting, and the uncomfortable middle — when clarity hasn’t arrived yet, but something is clearly shifting. Basically you’ll find thoughts about the entirety of the human experience.

Enjoy! Thank you for visiting. I hope you find the content valuable. If you ever need to go deeper, I offer private consultations.

  • Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Most workplace conflicts don’t erupt out of nowhere. They send clear signals — if you know what to look for. A shift in tone. A clipped response. Someone who suddenly stops asking questions. Break room conversations that end when certain people enter. These aren’t random behaviors — they’re early warning signs that most leaders miss. Not because they’re careless. Because they were never taught how… Keep reading →

  • The Executive Brief

    The Executive Brief

    How Elite Leaders Win When the Stakes Are Highest When decisions shape careers, reputations, and market trust, perception isn’t a side factor — it’s the hidden driver that you’re either harnessing to your benefit…or missing at your detriment. For more than three decades, the 6‑Layer Perception Stack™ and 4P™ Perception Model have quietly empowered leaders through moments that define organizations and careers. From boardroom showdowns… Keep reading →

  • Training to Be Streetwise

    Training to Be Streetwise

    This summary reflects the second interview with Anthony Celano, a former NYC Police Detective and founder of StreetWise Communication Training programs. Celano, described as humble and insightful, offers depth in both people skills and storytelling. Keep reading →

From Philosophy to Psychology: Understanding Society's Fascination with Disturbing Themes with Jordan Conrad, Ph.D., LCSW Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Why ‘Death Game’ Shows Hook Us: Wealth Gaps, Social Media, Trauma Loops & AI’s Impact | Dr. Jordan Conrad@SilverDisobedience host Dian Griesel interviews psychotherapist and philosopher Dr. Jordan Conrad about why “death game” stories like Squid Game and Hunger Games draw massive audiences. Conrad connects the genre to widening wealth gaps, the way incomprehensible riches distort perception, and social media’s click economy that pushes people to commodify themselves and chase status through risky or cruel behavior. They discuss Goodhart’s Law (when measures like money or clicks become targets), how groupthink and desperation make participants believe they can survive, and how dystopian class-warfare themes reflect alienation. The conversation shifts to art and life’s “looping effects,” how repeated personal stories can reinforce trauma schemas, why people struggle to express wants in relationships, concerns about AI outsourcing critical thinking and social skills, ADHD diagnoses and the factory model of education, and risks of therapist self-disclosure and political gatekeeping in psychotherapy.Learn more about JORDAN CONRAD, Ph.D., LCSW here:https://www.lexingtonparkpsychotherapy.com/Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠ SHOW RUN: 00:00 Why Death Games Hook Us01:26 Meet Dr Jordan Conrad01:58 From Late Reader to Philosophy03:58 Emotions as Moral Perception04:57 Therapy Practice and Bioethics05:49 Wealth Gap and Big Numbers09:35 Clicks as Currency13:12 Goodharts Law and Metrics15:51 Influencer Illusions17:24 Squid Game Groupthink19:21 Class Warfare Dystopias21:37 Art Imitates Life Looping24:59 Trauma Stories and Identity29:18 Everyday Schemas and Space31:37 People Pleasing in Relationships32:50 Surprise Guessing Game33:17 Why We Don’t Know34:23 Do Opposites Attract36:00 Self Focus and Growth38:38 AI and Identity Loss42:57 Therapy Needs Boundaries46:04 ADHD and Novelty Brains50:05 Factory Model Schools52:50 Therapist Self Disclosure57:35 Politics in Therapy01:00:06 Wrap Up and Goodbye
  1. From Philosophy to Psychology: Understanding Society's Fascination with Disturbing Themes with Jordan Conrad, Ph.D., LCSW
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  3. Divorce, Mediation Versus Litigation with Joe Dillon
  4. The Future of Heart Health, AI & Innovation with Dr. Ami Bhatt, FDA Chair, Digital Health Advisory Committee
  5. Exploring Bioenergetics with Dr. Sue Morter

Recent posts
  • Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Most workplace conflicts don’t erupt out of nowhere. They send clear signals — if you know what to look for. A shift in tone. A clipped response. Someone who suddenly stops asking questions. Break room conversations that end when certain people enter. These aren’t random behaviors — they’re early warning signs that most leaders miss.… Keep reading →

  • The Executive Brief

    The Executive Brief

    How Elite Leaders Win When the Stakes Are Highest When decisions shape careers, reputations, and market trust, perception isn’t a side factor — it’s the hidden driver that you’re either harnessing to your benefit…or missing at your detriment. For more than three decades, the 6‑Layer Perception Stack™ and 4P™ Perception Model have quietly empowered leaders… Keep reading →

  • Stop Comparing: Embrace Your Decision-Making Process

    Stop Comparing: Embrace Your Decision-Making Process

    Do you ever wonder if the lives of others are more certain than yours? Like, do you think they seem to always know what they’re doing? Where they’re headed? Why their choices look so clean and settled? Most of us do this quietly: We compare other people’s outsides to our insides. Their confidence gets compared… Keep reading →

  • Introspectionism Reconsidered: Perception, Presence, and the Inner Work of Leadership

    Introspectionism Reconsidered: Perception, Presence, and the Inner Work of Leadership

    Introspectionism is often dismissed as an outdated psychological approach—too subjective, too imprecise, too unreliable to withstand modern scientific standards. Historically, that criticism is fair. As a formal method, introspection failed because inner experience cannot be standardized, replicated, or externally verified with consistency. But leadership, perception, and human judgment do not operate in standardized environments either.… Keep reading →

  • Bullying & Childhood Suicide with Kirk Smalley, Stand for the Silent co-founder

    Bullying & Childhood Suicide with Kirk Smalley, Stand for the Silent co-founder

    Bullying and Childhood Suicide: A Conversation with Kirk Smalley of Stand For The Silent Bullying is a topic that transcends the typical playground squabbles and moves into heartbreaking territory when it leads to childhood suicide. This serious issue has taken a tragic toll on many families, including Kirk Smalley’s, whose personal experience has driven him… Keep reading →

  • The Aging Wisely Project with Scott Fisher & Dr. Ben Green

    The Aging Wisely Project with Scott Fisher & Dr. Ben Green

    Aging Wisely: A Journey of Growth, Purpose, and Connection In today’s rapidly evolving world, the quest to understand and embrace aging wisely has never been more pertinent. We are all fortunate enough to grow older, yet wisdom is not guaranteed. How do we harness the potential of our golden years and ensure they are filled… Keep reading →

  • Sometimes No Comment is the Best Statement

    Sometimes No Comment is the Best Statement

    “Sometimes no comment is best.” A few years ago, an associate and I went to go see a client. After a long trip followed by a productive working dinner we checked into our rooms. Within not even 5 minutes — our texts and calls were crossing because of mutual cringe resulting from seeing the sticky… Keep reading →

  • The Power of Boxing: Mental Health and Community with Jill Diamond Chastain

    The Power of Boxing: Mental Health and Community with Jill Diamond Chastain

    From Boxing to Philanthropy and Beyond with Jill Diamond Chastain In the latest episode of the Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast, I had the immense privilege of speaking with Jill Diamond Chastain, a pioneering force in boxing and a true advocate for philanthropy. With over two decades of experience in boxing and a diverse background… Keep reading →

  • Simple Resolutions for a Healthier You

    Simple Resolutions for a Healthier You

    Right about now, we often begin thinking about resolutions and all the things we’re going to change.  We begin with good intentions. We reflect on our habits, life, actions and pick something(s) we’re determined to change or improve upon. Some of us even stick to our goals and reach them—which is fantastic!  While I think… Keep reading →

  • Leadership Lessons from Metallica: Some Kind of Monster

    Leadership Lessons from Metallica: Some Kind of Monster

    “Metallica: Some Kind of Monster” is one of my favorite documentaries. Why? Because most leadership narratives are carefully edited. Strength is emphasized. Conflict is minimized. Doubt is erased in post-production. Some Kind of Monster does the opposite — and that’s why it matters. The film documents Metallica at a moment when their external reputation remained… Keep reading →