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Over the years, this space has grown into a living body of work — reflections written in real time and in retrospect, across seasons of change, clarity, disruption, and growth. It now also includes links to my SilverDisobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast interviews.

Feel free to scroll or use the search bar to choose a topic that reflects where you are right now and explore at your own pace.

There’s no order required. No finish line. Read or watch whatever meets you where you are.

Essays explore how perception — consciously and unconsciously — shapes experience, decision-making, emotional response and self-trust. They also address timing in life, trade-offs, internal alignment, and the often unspoken pressures behind big choices. Many posts look at how to separate fear, urgency, and outside influence from true readiness. Some tackle awareness of our nervous system, maintaining emotional steadiness, and returning to center — especially during periods of uncertainty, conflict, or fatigue. Plenty examine interpersonal perception, unspoken cues, boundaries, loyalty, projection, and the subtle mechanics of influence — both personal and professional. Others tackle leadership as an internal state, not a title. Topics include presence under scrutiny, decision-making in high-stakes environments, and maintaining integrity while operating in complex systems. I explore personal evolution, self-trust, and the quiet courage required to outgrow old identities — without abandoning yourself in the process. You can also expect to find posts about space for grief, patience, waiting, and the uncomfortable middle — when clarity hasn’t arrived yet, but something is clearly shifting. Basically you’ll find thoughts about the entirety of the human experience.

Enjoy! Thank you for visiting. I hope you find the content valuable. If you ever need to go deeper, I offer private consultations.

  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

Envisioning a Better NYC: Rising Ground CEO Alan Mucatel Shares Ideas Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Turning Crisis into Success: The Inspiring Journey of Rising Ground with Alan MucatelJoin me for an insightful @SilverDisobedience episode with Alan Mucatel, CEO of Rising Ground, one of New York's largest human services organizations. Discover how Alan lead a team to turn around an organization on the brink of collapse to become a leading provider of social services in New York City. Learn about his motivations, the challenges faced, the turnaround strategies employed, and the unique values that make Rising Ground stand out. Whether you're interested in non-profit management, social services, or inspiring leadership journeys, this episode is packed with valuable lessons and heartwarming stories. Don’t miss out on understanding how persistence, accountability, and community focus have sculpted a stronger future for many New Yorkers. Subscribe and stay informed!Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠ This episode was recorded in collaboration with The Manhattan Center, New York City, New York⁠⁠Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Rising Ground01:17 Meet Alan Mucatel: The Turnaround Specialist03:29 Joining Rising Ground: The Initial Challenges05:52 Facing Financial and Operational Crises08:36 Rebuilding and Restructuring12:51 The Path to Recovery and Growth20:15 Rising Ground's Unique Approach and Services28:06 Introduction to Rising Ground's Services28:31 Child Welfare and Family Stabilization28:51 Supporting Vulnerable Populations29:25 Comprehensive Support and Partnerships31:20 Hiring Philosophy and Practices36:36 Key Traits for Success at Rising Ground40:26 Advice for Aspiring Social Entrepreneurs47:17 Funding and Financial Structure50:29 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
  1. Envisioning a Better NYC: Rising Ground CEO Alan Mucatel Shares Ideas
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Recent posts
  • The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    The Language You’re Speaking Before You Open Your Mouth

    Most people believe their influence lives in words. This is, at best, an elementary understanding of how human communication actually works. Words are the last thing we process. Long before content is evaluated, influence is determined through affective signaling —the emotional data you transmit before logic ever arrives. This includes your tone, pace, stillness, certainty, Keep reading →

  • The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The Dangers of the Echo Chamber Effect

    The media’s polarization, driven by various agendas, breeds divisiveness. The echo chamber effect, reinforced by social media algorithms and limited news sources, hinders open-mindedness and constructive dialogue. Anonymity online fuels harmful behavior and cancel culture. Dian Griesel advises vigilance against echo chambers and advocates for thoughtful sharing. Follow her for thought-provoking content. Keep reading →

  • The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    The Phenomenon of Continued Influence Effect

    Ever wonder why people continue to believe something after it’s been thoroughly debunked as false? Continued Influence Effect is at play. The continued influence effect refers to a cognitive phenomenon where misinformation or inaccurate information continues to affect people’s beliefs and judgments even after they have been presented with corrections or accurate information. This effect Keep reading →

  • Discover Randi Rahm: The Couture Fashion Icon

    Discover Randi Rahm: The Couture Fashion Icon

    🌟✨ New Episode Alert! ✨🌟Welcome to today’s episode of Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics! 🎙️💖 We’re thrilled to welcome the incredibly talented Randi Rahm, an internationally acclaimed fashion designer! 👗    ✨ Known for her exquisite, one-of-a-kind couture gowns and breathtaking evening wear, Randi has truly redefined elegance in the fashion world. 🌍💃 Based in the Keep reading →

  • Unlock Leadership with Christoffel Sneijders’ 3 Brains Theory

    Unlock Leadership with Christoffel Sneijders’ 3 Brains Theory

    🌟🎙️ Exciting news, everyone! 🎉 Join us for the latest episode of the Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics podcast featuring the incredible Christoffel Sneijders! 🧠💖✨ As an author, professor, and coach, Christoffel is here to elevate your leadership, relationships, and personal growth! 🚀💪 His groundbreaking 3 Brains Theory (Head, Heart, and Gut) combines neuroscience and emotional Keep reading →

  • Dream Big: Ron Holt’s Success Formula Explained

    Dream Big: Ron Holt’s Success Formula Explained

    🌟✨ Exciting Episode Alert! 🎙️🚀 Join us on the latest episode of the Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics Podcast with the inspiring Ron Holt! 🌈💪 From a tiny 250 sq. ft. office to building a 93-location national brand with Two Maids & A Mop 🧹🏢, Ron’s journey is nothing short of incredible! After two tough years Keep reading →

  • Empowering Asian Women: Sheena Yap Chan on Confidence and Leadership

    Empowering Asian Women: Sheena Yap Chan on Confidence and Leadership

    🌟 Exciting news! 🌟 I’m thrilled to welcome the Sheena Yap Chan to The SilverDisobedience Perception Dynamics podcast! 🎤 ✨ As a Wall Street Journal bestselling author, keynote speaker, and award-winning podcaster, Sheena is a powerhouse in elevating leadership and self-confidence! 💪💖 🎧 Host of the renowned podcast The Tao of Self-Confidence, she’s interviewed over Keep reading →

  • Bobby Cassidy’s Journey: Stories from Journalism to Boxing Legends

    Bobby Cassidy’s Journey: Stories from Journalism to Boxing Legends

    🎙️✨ Exciting new episode alert! 🚨 Join me as I sit down with the incredible Bobby Cassidy, a seasoned journalist and the Executive Director of Multimedia at Newsday! 📰 💼 In this podcast, Bobby shares his journey into the world of investigative reporting and documentary filmmaking. 🎥🔍 But that’s not all! He’ll dive into his Keep reading →

  • Empowering Gen Z Entrepreneurs: Insights from Michael Sattler

    Empowering Gen Z Entrepreneurs: Insights from Michael Sattler

    🌟🎙️ New Podcast Episode Alert! 🎙️🌟 How do young entrepreneurial founders 🚀 learn to grow their businesses for success? 🤔✨Did you know that 60% of venture investors come from investment banking or consulting?    💼 Yet, they often push outdated strategies that lead to failure! 😱 With 90% of venture-backed startups not making it, it’s Keep reading →

  • Inspiring Journey of NYPD Detective 1st Grade Nick Arhakos

    Inspiring Journey of NYPD Detective 1st Grade Nick Arhakos

    🚨🎙️✨ Exciting News! 🎉 Join me for an incredible episode of the Perception Dynamics Podcast featuring the remarkable Det. 1st Grade Nick Arhakos! 🚔   💼 With over 32,000 NYPD officers, only about 300 earn the prestigious rank of Detective 1st Grade. 🌟 In this uplifting interview, Det. Arhakos shares his inspiring journey through the force—from Keep reading →

  • Leadership Insights with Willie Pietersen

    Leadership Insights with Willie Pietersen

    🚀🎙️ Exciting Episode Alert! 🎉 Tune into this Perception Dynamics Podcast as we welcome the impressive Willie Pietersen, former CEO of multibillion-dollar companies like Lever Brothers foods division, Seagram USA, Tropicana, and Sterling Winthrop & Business Professor at the Columbia Business School. 🌟 📈 Now, Willie is sharing his top insights in his new book, Keep reading →