The Resource Library

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Over the years, this space has grown into a living body of work — reflections written in real time and in retrospect, across seasons of change, clarity, disruption, and growth. It now also includes links to my SilverDisobedience® Perception Dynamics™ podcast interviews.

Feel free to scroll or use the search bar to choose a topic that reflects where you are right now and explore at your own pace.

There’s no order required. No finish line. Read or watch whatever meets you where you are.

Essays explore how perception — consciously and unconsciously — shapes experience, decision-making, emotional response and self-trust. They also address timing in life, trade-offs, internal alignment, and the often unspoken pressures behind big choices. Many posts look at how to separate fear, urgency, and outside influence from true readiness. Some tackle awareness of our nervous system, maintaining emotional steadiness, and returning to center — especially during periods of uncertainty, conflict, or fatigue. Plenty examine interpersonal perception, unspoken cues, boundaries, loyalty, projection, and the subtle mechanics of influence — both personal and professional. Others tackle leadership as an internal state, not a title. Topics include presence under scrutiny, decision-making in high-stakes environments, and maintaining integrity while operating in complex systems. I explore personal evolution, self-trust, and the quiet courage required to outgrow old identities — without abandoning yourself in the process. You can also expect to find posts about space for grief, patience, waiting, and the uncomfortable middle — when clarity hasn’t arrived yet, but something is clearly shifting. Basically you’ll find thoughts about the entirety of the human experience.

Enjoy! Thank you for visiting. I hope you find the content valuable. If you ever need to go deeper, I offer private consultations.

  • Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Most workplace conflicts don’t erupt out of nowhere. They send clear signals — if you know what to look for. A shift in tone. A clipped response. Someone who suddenly stops asking questions. Break room conversations that end when certain people enter. These aren’t random behaviors — they’re early warning signs that most leaders miss. Not because they’re careless. Because they were never taught how… Keep reading →

  • The Executive Brief

    The Executive Brief

    How Elite Leaders Win When the Stakes Are Highest When decisions shape careers, reputations, and market trust, perception isn’t a side factor — it’s the hidden driver that you’re either harnessing to your benefit…or missing at your detriment. For more than three decades, the 6‑Layer Perception Stack™ and 4P™ Perception Model have quietly empowered leaders through moments that define organizations and careers. From boardroom showdowns… Keep reading →

  • From Philosophy to Psychology: Understanding Society’s Fascination with Disturbing Themes with Jordan Conrad, Ph.D., LCSW

    From Philosophy to Psychology: Understanding Society’s Fascination with Disturbing Themes with Jordan Conrad, Ph.D., LCSW

    In an interview with Dr. Jordan Conrad, key themes emerge about the appeal of “death game” narratives like Squid Game. The discussion links these stories to societal issues such as wealth disparity, social media’s influence, trauma repetition, and the effect of AI on interpersonal skills. Various challenges in therapy and relationships are also explored. Keep reading →

From Philosophy to Psychology: Understanding Society's Fascination with Disturbing Themes with Jordan Conrad, Ph.D., LCSW Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics™ with Dian Griesel: How People Think, Lead & Create Success

Why ‘Death Game’ Shows Hook Us: Wealth Gaps, Social Media, Trauma Loops & AI’s Impact | Dr. Jordan Conrad@SilverDisobedience host Dian Griesel interviews psychotherapist and philosopher Dr. Jordan Conrad about why “death game” stories like Squid Game and Hunger Games draw massive audiences. Conrad connects the genre to widening wealth gaps, the way incomprehensible riches distort perception, and social media’s click economy that pushes people to commodify themselves and chase status through risky or cruel behavior. They discuss Goodhart’s Law (when measures like money or clicks become targets), how groupthink and desperation make participants believe they can survive, and how dystopian class-warfare themes reflect alienation. The conversation shifts to art and life’s “looping effects,” how repeated personal stories can reinforce trauma schemas, why people struggle to express wants in relationships, concerns about AI outsourcing critical thinking and social skills, ADHD diagnoses and the factory model of education, and risks of therapist self-disclosure and political gatekeeping in psychotherapy.Learn more about JORDAN CONRAD, Ph.D., LCSW here:https://www.lexingtonparkpsychotherapy.com/Please SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠ SHOW RUN: 00:00 Why Death Games Hook Us01:26 Meet Dr Jordan Conrad01:58 From Late Reader to Philosophy03:58 Emotions as Moral Perception04:57 Therapy Practice and Bioethics05:49 Wealth Gap and Big Numbers09:35 Clicks as Currency13:12 Goodharts Law and Metrics15:51 Influencer Illusions17:24 Squid Game Groupthink19:21 Class Warfare Dystopias21:37 Art Imitates Life Looping24:59 Trauma Stories and Identity29:18 Everyday Schemas and Space31:37 People Pleasing in Relationships32:50 Surprise Guessing Game33:17 Why We Don’t Know34:23 Do Opposites Attract36:00 Self Focus and Growth38:38 AI and Identity Loss42:57 Therapy Needs Boundaries46:04 ADHD and Novelty Brains50:05 Factory Model Schools52:50 Therapist Self Disclosure57:35 Politics in Therapy01:00:06 Wrap Up and Goodbye
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Recent posts
  • Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Before the Storm: Getting In Front of Workplace Conflicts Before They Escalate

    Most workplace conflicts don’t erupt out of nowhere. They send clear signals — if you know what to look for. A shift in tone. A clipped response. Someone who suddenly stops asking questions. Break room conversations that end when certain people enter. These aren’t random behaviors — they’re early warning signs that most leaders miss.… Keep reading →

  • The Executive Brief

    The Executive Brief

    How Elite Leaders Win When the Stakes Are Highest When decisions shape careers, reputations, and market trust, perception isn’t a side factor — it’s the hidden driver that you’re either harnessing to your benefit…or missing at your detriment. For more than three decades, the 6‑Layer Perception Stack™ and 4P™ Perception Model have quietly empowered leaders… Keep reading →

  • From Executive Assistant to Lancome USA Artistry Director: Jasmine Diane Ferreira’s Story

    From Executive Assistant to Lancome USA Artistry Director: Jasmine Diane Ferreira’s Story

    Celebrating Authentic Beauty: A Conversation with Jasmine Diane Ferreira In a world where beauty and self-expression take center stage, few stories are as inspiring as Jasmine Ferreira’s journey, the National Director of Artistry at Lancôme USA. Joining us on our podcast, Jasmine shares her incredible journey from executive assistant to a leading figure in the… Keep reading →

  • Debunking the Multi-Tasking Myth

    Debunking the Multi-Tasking Myth

    All of my best accidents and mistakes — I’ve made the Greatest Hits List of Whoppers — have resulted from multi-tasking. Like saying “yes” to things I don’t really want to say yes to because I wasn’t paying attention and was elsewhere mentally occupied. Like breaking a toe and having it be serious enough that… Keep reading →

  • Why Trying to Please Everyone Leads to Failure

    Why Trying to Please Everyone Leads to Failure

    While I won’t say I hold the keys to success for all, I do know that the key to failure — in personal and professional situations — often lies in trying to please everyone. While seemingly well-intentioned, this approach inevitably leads to compromising on core values, diluted objectives, and conflicting priorities. Never a good mix… Keep reading →

  • MSNBC’s Luke Russert: From Journalism to Hosting Live Events

    MSNBC’s Luke Russert: From Journalism to Hosting Live Events

    Embracing Nuance and Connection: An Insightful Conversation with Luke Russert In a recent engaging conversation with Luke Russert, a renowned MSNBC personality and now the host of MSNBC Live, we delved into the art of fostering substantive dialogue, personal reinvention, and understanding grief. Luke’s unique blend of political insight, personal reinvention, and a strong legacy… Keep reading →

  • The Alzheimer’s Hearing Loss Paradox with Dr. Robert Keefer

    The Alzheimer’s Hearing Loss Paradox with Dr. Robert Keefer

    The Hidden Connection: Hearing Loss and Cognitive Decline Explored In a compelling discussion with Dr. Robert Keefer, an expert in the intersection of hearing loss and cognitive decline, the alarming link between hearing loss and Alzheimer’s disease came to light. With years of experience in pharmaceuticals, medical technology, and medical device development, Dr. Keefer introduces… Keep reading →

  • Breaking the Cycle of Holding Back Love

    Breaking the Cycle of Holding Back Love

    I think the biggest regret one could have on their deathbed is that they held back showing their love to others who are very important in their lives, or that they realized the importance of those others too late. People do this all the time in all kinds of ways for all different reasons. Afraid… Keep reading →

  • Vanessa Tyler: A Lifelong Pursuit of Truth and Storytelling

    Vanessa Tyler: A Lifelong Pursuit of Truth and Storytelling

    Unraveling Stories and Journeys: A Conversation with Vanessa Tyler In a world where stories shape perceptions and journalism is undergoing a profound transformation, Vanessa Tyler stands out as a beacon of insightful reporting and thoughtful storytelling. In a recent podcast episode of Silver Disobedience® Perception Dynamics,™ Tyler unfolds her illustrious career, her passion for storytelling,… Keep reading →

  • Arresting Stories: From the Force to the Page with Anthony Celano, novelist, ex NYPD Detective & Squad Commander

    Arresting Stories: From the Force to the Page with Anthony Celano, novelist, ex NYPD Detective & Squad Commander

    From NYPD Detective to Crime Novelist: The Fascinating Journey of Anthony Celano Welcome to the Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics Podcast, hosted by me, Dian Griesel, where we explore the multifaceted journeys of individuals who have transcended traditional career paths. This episode features a riveting conversation with Anthony Celano, a retired Detective and Squad Commander with… Keep reading →